5 ideas to INSTANTLY turn your life around and Achieve your goals BEFORE THE YEAR IS OVER.

Here are some ideas that I’ve been learning from mentors and applying the last couple weeks. I feel following these to the detail would bring me a lot closer to my end of the year goals than anything else.

Don’t try to reinvent the wheel. You would either lose a ton of money or time in the process, and there is the risk of having nothing to show for it. You need to find somebody who is operating in your field and winning and model, not copy but model, what they do! This is advice that works in anything from writing papers(lol trust me I would know), to starting a business.

Proximity is key. They say your income is the average of your 5 closest friends, and I firmly believe they. If you want something or want to become a certain somebody go to places where people who a) already have that thing, and b) people who want to have that thing congregate. The advantages of being in that atmosphere of people gunning for similar goals cannot be overstated. Just by being there your eyes are opened to possibilities you never thought possible and networking.

This next one, goes hand in hand with the previous tip and has a lot to do with what you feed your mind. One thing I have convinced myself is that the difference between me and the people who have what I want or the people I want to be like can be boiled down to three things. One, what they feed their mind mind with; Two, how they spend their 24 hours, and Three, the people they associate with. I then decided that one way to achieve my goals is to immerse myself in the same content as my mentors. Not to hate on rap but music has been reduced to just when I’m in the gym and occasionally I would listen to an audio book  in the gym instead, that’s how deeply I am trying to immerse myself.

Careful who you take advice from. If they don’t have what you want you don’t have any business taking their advice. For example, a broke individual doesn’t have shit to tell me about where to put my money and investing, and a dude who’s never had girlfriend can’t teach me how to get a girl . Once you get started on this journey you would have a bunch of naysayers and negative people who try to tell you it won’t work out or that the people you are following are scammers. If such a person doesn’t have what you want don’t listen to them.

Lastly, never eat lunch alone. I have a mentor who said in the last 15 years he’s never eaten lunch alone its always with a client or prospective business partner. Thats a whole lot of lunches which translates to a whole lot of deals which means a whole lot of money. So I put my own spin on it, I will not eat lunch alone, it will always be with people who I can learn something from or people with whom I am interested in furthering a relationship with.

I would love to know which of these ideas you thought was really cool or which of these ideas you’re already working on.

Remember execution is key.

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THOUGHTS ON BECOMING A POWEFUL/INFLUENTIAL PERSON. EP1. Walk in humility before the powers that be. 

THOUGHTS ON BECOMING A POWERFUL AND INFLUENTIAL PERSON. EP 01. 

WALK IN HUMILITY BEFORE THE POWERS THAT BE. 

Before we go any further, allow me to give honor to the most powerful being in the universe. God. God is the ultimate source of power. With his word, he created the universe and all in it. How powerful is that? Humble yourself before him and you’ll be exalted. 

That being said, there really is a need to humble yourself before the powers that be. You do not want them looking at you as a threat. If they do, bad things would happen that might in due time stop your rise. Is it any wonder that the first law of power in Robert Greene’s book is never outshine the master. No it isn’t. 

There are lessons that can be learned from Lucius Lyon’s behavior in the first episode of empire season 2. The Frank Gathers, the most feared being on the street, arrives at the same prison he’s being kept in. Prior to his arrival, there are rumors he would be coming and the prisoners are jittery. Lucius keeps his cool. Upon Frank’s arrival, the first thing he does is to go and greet him. 

Frank accepts the greeting and tells Lucius that them both, are inspirational figures. Lucius replies by saying that no, the only inspirational figure is Frank. Frank looked pleased by that statement. You see, there’s a lot of sense in what Lucius did. Assuming he accepted the compliment, Frank might feel threatened. Lucius didn’t which caused Frank to lower his guard and not suspect anything. 

In the end, Lucius had to go have a sit down with Frank. He stood up to Frank in order to defend his wife. Frank ordered for him to be killed. Unknown to Frank, all though Lucius came alone, all the guys present there were loyal to Lucius. Lucius tells Frank that he must be mistaken. Lucius then orders for Frank to be killed. The last lesson Frank Gathers learnt in this life was that it was Lucius Lyon who actually ran the streets. 

Assuming Lucius had accepted the compliment earlier, Frank might have been more careful knowing that Lucius was around and might have even killed him to eliminate the threat of his existence. Lucius walking humbly before Frank enabled him to become survive and depose him in the end. 

In what sphere do you want to be powerful ? Who are the powerful people already existing there ? Walk in humility before them. This way you won’t be considered a threat. 

Remember, you have to stoop in order to conquer.